Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - David Horn
If you flash your lights at someone to warn them of your presence (as advised in the Highway Code), and they mistake it as "I'm letting you out", and you crash into them as they pull in front of you, can it be said to be your fault?

Just wondering, since everyone seems to use flashing lights as the universal signal of "I'm giving way to you".

slt

Edited by Pugugly {P} on 10/12/2007 at 19:36

Flashing lights - Lud
HJ says it's dangerous to use flashing lights to mean anything other than 'Here I am, I'm coming through'. It's one of the few areas where I don't quite agree with him. In London it usually means either 'After you' or 'Thanks'. The very rare instances of confusion result in no damage and a certain amount of theatrical laughter. Perhaps HJ means on the road where everyone is barrelling along.
Flashing lights - Bilboman
In Spain drivers are encouraged to hoot or flash *several times* to warn another vehicle, especially a lorry, before overtaking. From my own experience this works very well (I have been living and driving in Spain for 16 years and I have frequently found that a well-timed series of flashes prevents a possible conflict or collison.) Safety is seen as more important here than courtesy. The "after you" flash does exist, but drivers (myself included) use it sparingly as safety is seen as more important than courtesy. Fair enough, once you're used to it.
My question is - when I am on holiday in the UK driving a Spanish-registered car and am about to overtake a British-registered lorry emblazoned with the name of a Dutch frozen food firm that happens to have a LHD Slovakian-registered cab with a Bulgarian driver at the wheel.... - should I flash? The highway is becoming a very complicated place. Methinks it is time for some standardised traffic laws - I propose multiple flashes for a warning and one long flash for "after you".
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - pendulum
"can it be said to be your fault".

Said by who?

I'd say it would be mostly your fault, if you did that, because everyone knows that when approaching a junction, headlight flashing means (from the car that has flashed) "Go on then".

I don't care about the people who will quote "the book" at me... I know what the official meaning is, but the unofficial meaning is by far the most popular one.

From an insurance companies point of view, I don't think they could say it is your fault. You have the book on your side. Even if it is wrong...
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - DP
SNIP!

And here's the reason.

www.honestjohn.co.uk/forum/post/index.htm?t=33415

Edited by Webmaster on 10/12/2007 at 20:54

Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - Vansboy
My headlight flashing, as an indication of anything other than a warning that I'm 'there', is limited to lorries which are overtaking me & want to pull back into the same lane. Even this is done on a selected basis. Not for any with non'UK plates, or badly driven vehicles.

I now let other road users make their own decision to pull out etc, based on my position on the road.

Plenty don't take advantage of the wide space I offer, to let them make their manouver.

Maybe something to do with living in Luton too long, makes me drive with even more a cautios attitude to poor road sense, of many drivers!

VB
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - Ruperts Trooper
Headlight flashing can cause confusion - why don't drivers accept that and ONLY use it when it CAN'T be misinterpreted.

I stop or slow, as appropriate, and use a hand gesture when I'm letting other drivers through - that way no-one gets confused.
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - Honestjohn
There's a more general problem of misuse of warnings in the UK.

Most people sound their horns as a rebuke, after whatever annoyed them, when it should only ever be used as a warning. The result of this is that far too many British drivers take offence when they are hooted at and start looking around for who is wanting to pick a fight.

I'll concede that flashing headlights is a bit different. If it's obvious that you are flashing someone out (because you have obviously slowed down, for instance) fair enough. But it doesn't automatically mean "come out in front of me". It means "I'm coming through."

You should be able to hoot a driver you are overtaking or flash a driver you are overtaking, to warn him that is what you are about to do.

Do that in some parts of this sceptered isle and the driver you hoot or flash will follow you home and beat you to death with a tyre iron.

HJ




Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - Tony Bee
Well I've been driving for far longer than I care to remember all over Europe and do not recall a single instance of confusion with headlight flashing.

Probably because I somehow seem to have picked up the differences between a short sharp flash to someone making eye contact at a junction for example. Or a rapid series of short flashes usually meaning "Get on with it you wassock" Or a full blaze of main beam kept lit meaning get out of the way you moron I'm at warp speed, etc etc with all sorts of minor instinctive variations, that I could only demonstrate on a long drive.

I don't think I'm mad.
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - Waino
The result of this is that far too many British drivers take offence when they are hooted at and start looking around for who is wanting to pick a fight.>>


This is very true. A couple of years ago, I was driving in town in SWMBO's Fiesta when the lady in front started to indicate right. I took this to mean that she was going to turn right at the junction a few yards in front of her. Suddenly she slammed into reverse and lurched backwards at me - she had spotted a parking space on the right. She hit the Fiesta, damaged the bumper - and wanted to know why I hadn't hooted to warn her. The truth was that I wasn't used to reacting and finding the hooter in a fairly unfamiliar car. Now, I always make sure that, if I get into a new/different car, I always check the location of the horn along with the more obviously necessary indicators etc..

On Saturday, I was turning into a space in the supermarket car park when an ol' boy stumbled out of the car adjacent to the spot I was heading into. I stopped to let him carry on and move away. Looking in my mirror, I saw another car reversing out into the place where he probably anticipated that I would have been clear of - I hooted a warning - that's all (remembering the earlier Fiesta episode). We had the cursing, the shaking of the fist, the full tantrum and rage. Marvellous - you just can't do right, can you???
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - David K
Hi,

Having recently driven in Crete, I would add one note of caution.
In Crete, flashing your lights at somene means 'stay there, I'm coming through regardless!'

Before I worked this out, you can just imagine the looks on the poor Greek drivers faces as I kindly acknowledged their generous gesture, and pulled out right across them!

DK

Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - ForumNeedsModerating
But it doesn't automatically mean "come out in front of me". It means "I'm coming through."

I've never used the 'flash' in this way & only ever seen it done once. In fact, I'd wager it's about the only universally understood indication of any kind - including the most commonly used ofiicial ones i.e. indicators, hand waving of various kinds, horn etc.

There are the odd ocassions when the flashee doesn't understand the meaning, (especially here in N.Wales where general driving proficiency & awareness seems lower than in my old stomping grounds of the S.E..) , but those seem to be with the particular driver rather than context. The 'particular driver' is usually female, 30-50 for some reason - in those cases it's safe to assume they won't move or continue a manoeuvre until the event horizon is clear - whatever your encouragements are.

The common currency when driving on width restricted country lanes here is the the 'flash' - instantly understood (bar the above proviso) as meaning 'I'm waiting, go ahead & pass or complete your manoeuvre' - so I would not recommend HJ ventures into N.Wales with his interpretation!

Unfortunately, the use of horn, in any context other than the absolutely unambiguous, does seem to engender an outraged or less than friendly reaction - it's just how it is. I don't use it for that reason, even in the "approved" circumstances - except maybe an unaware driver reversing into me.

The safest & least controversial route would seem to be never to gift fellow road users with right of way at all or use easily misinterpretable hand 'signals' - perhaps the Highway Code should be updated?

Edited by woodbines on 10/12/2007 at 23:54

Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - grumpyscot
I use a "quick flash" to indicate "I'm letting you out", and hold my lights on when I mean "I'm coming through". If poss, I try to supplement the "I'm letting you out" with a hand gesture (a wave) so that there's no misunderstanding.
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - Cliff Pope
I use a "quick flash" to indicate "I'm letting you out" and hold my lights
on when I mean "I'm coming through". If poss I try to supplement the "I'm
letting you out" with a hand gesture (a wave) so that there's no misunderstanding.



That's what I do. It seems obvious to me.
The same with the horn. A short peep means you go first, or thanks, but a long blast means watch out, I'm not sure whether you have seen me.
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - Garethj
You should be able to hoot a driver you are overtaking or flash a driver you are overtaking to warn him that is what you are about to do.


Very true! One other interpretation of flashing headlights that we've missed is if you do it on the motorway when the slower car in front has a clear lane to his left. Flash your headlights then and it means: put on your foglights / give a brake test, veer all over the road and follow you for the next 6 miles 2 inches from your bumper.

Surprised it's not in the Highway Code to be honest, it's in common usage
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - Old Navy
Before my HGV test I was specificly warned not to flash my headlights to give way or I would fail. If I am giving way to someone I give them room and let them decide if it is safe to move. I have seen a motorcycle taken out by someone who thought flashed headlights gave them right of way.
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - SlidingPillar
My understanding is that truckers had long been using it as now, and HMG in the Highway Code when first mentioning it ruled the opposite.

Vansboy is about right I think for receiving flashes. Same backwards for giving.
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - TonyJ
Recently I found a copy of ?The Art & Technique of Driving? by Pat Moss & Erik Carlson (25/-, 1965) & they advocate the use of horn & headlights when overtaking. The quote is ?No driver should be afraid to use his horn or flash his lights & no driver should resent being warned in this way?. Hmm.
Tony
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - normd2
reading this thread and seeing the different interpretations it's clear that flashing your headlights can only have one meaning ie 'I'm here' - anything else and you risk being mis-understood.
TonyJ's post reminded me of when I used to do most of my long haul trips overnight I'd briefly flash main beam before overtaking trucks and would usually get a quick flash in return once past - it sort of seemed friendly.
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - davidh
normd2,

I absolutely agree. When I'm sat in my car, insulated, a flash alerts me through my eyes, a beep alerts me through my ears. I doesnt actually tell me any thing other than another driver has drawn themselves to my attention.

What I then do / not do is another matter. If we all communicated important information through beeps and flashes then I'd better take a torch and buzzer in to the office tomorrow for my meeting and let others guess what I mean...
Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - Altea Ego
information through beeps and flashes then I'd better take a torch and buzzer in to
the office tomorrow for my meeting and let others guess what I mean...


Your colleagues inform me that this would be much more informative than another one of your power point presentations. ;) (TIC of course)
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Flashing your headlights - What's it for ? - charlesb
My Wife wrote off her car about 5 years ago because of someone flashing their lights. She was driving down a single road just off a roundabout in December at around 5pm.

The oncoming traffic were chokablock towards the roundabout. She came up to a left hand turn, where a Mercedes was waiting to turn right into the chocko traffic.

He pulled out in front of her. She was so close she couldn't stop. Bear in mind she was only doing 30mph, and tried to brake.

His reason for pulling out? Someone allegedly flashed him to let him out. So why did he not look at the lane he was crossing beforehand. The Police almost prosecuted him, but did not have sufficient evidence.

the best advice I ever got was from my driving instructor nearly 20 years ago.

"Just imagine that everyone else on the road is a complete pink fluffy piece of rice, and they are just about to do the stupidest thing you can imagine"

That has been my guiding light for a long time. Now I realise that this ONLY relates to driving ability, not the actual person, but I really think that this works as (touch wood) I've only ever damaged my car with inanimate objects such as bricks, steel posts etc.... (only myself to blame!)
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Edited by Dynamic Dave on 11/12/2007 at 21:25

Flashing your headlights - Truckers - henry k
Truckers flash an overtaking truck to indicate that the rear of the load has now passed me and I am happy for you to move over into "my" lane.

When I had the joy of travelling on the motorways in a very knackered UNO I regularly flashed truckers as I struggled on any incline. I always got the truckers indicators flashed as a thank you.

There appeared to be no problems with this procedure but is a pretty straight forward situation.
Flashing your headlights - Truckers - Altea Ego
In the Uk, its fairly obvious to most common sense drivers what the flashing headlamp means,

To the trucker passing you, two quick flashes is "your tailboard is past and I am comfortable for you to move in"

Ditto two quick flashes with a quick wave of the hand and lots of eye contact is "I am letting you out, (and you had best be pretty sharpish about it I wont hang aournd all day"

The long Eyeball burning main beam on for several seconds is always "Watch yourself cowboy I am coming through"

Its all about "body language (or light language)

Abroad however, Flash your lights in whatever way always means "watchout I am here and you dont want to be"


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Flashing your headlights - Truckers - Mapmaker
>>Well I've been driving for far longer than I care to remember all over Europe and do not
>>recall a single instance of confusion with headlight flashing.


I've only been driving 17 years, and I can recall many.

I would add that the person outside the Bahnhof in Zurich last week seemed to understand that my flash meant 'please do come out of your parking space that nobody will let you out of, because I'd like it so I'll give you space!'


I virtually never flash my lights unless I am virtually stationary so as to avoid confusion. Even then I seldom flash, owing to the two divergent views as to interpretation. Equally, I virtually never interpret somebody else's flash as 'go on' unless they are nearly stationary.


Flashing your headlights - Truckers - Cliff Pope
When two cars meet on a single track road, and one driver prepares to reverse to the previous passing place, a quick flash of the headlights obviously means come on, I am going back. At night, it is courteous for the other driver to turn his headlights off as he advances, to make it easier for the reversing driver to see where he is going.
When the passing car is nearly level and about to pass, turning the lights on again, or a quick flash, or a tiny toot signals thank you.

It works well in our neck of the woods, apart from 4WD and women over 50. The former cannot drive off the metalled road, the latter cannot reverse.
Flashing your headlights - Truckers - Sofa Spud
Headlamp flashing is still a matter of common sense, as, like said above, its only official meaning is a warning of presence.

Flashing lights to let someone go can be dangerous because the 'flashee' might assume the road is clear when all you meant is that you are prepared to let them go, but the kamikaze motorcyclist who's since appeared round the bend behind you isn't!

Also one has to be aware that flashing one driver to convey one message - like to an overtaking lorry on a dual carriageway, can be mistaken by another (possibly stupid) driver, like perhaps one on a slip road beside you, and they pull on in front of you just as lorry pulls in!

Edited by Sofa Spud on 11/12/2007 at 17:39

Flashing your headlights - Truckers - grumpyscot
Going off track slightly, bus travelling along a road, indicating to pull into bus stop which is just (20 feet) after a junction on left hand side. Car is at junction waiting to turn right to travel in opposite direction to bus. Car driver see indicator on bus and assumes he is turning left into junction - he's a stranger and isn't aware of the bus stop.

Car and bus inevitably meet with horrendous noise and observers saying "oops".

Personally, I try never to assume things like that - I always wait until I actually see a vehicle start turning before I believe his signal - probably spent too much of my life watching trilby hats in Volvo 340s and Nissan Micras who never shut off their indicators, and being amazed at the accidents they left behind..............
Flashing your headlights - Truckers - Lud
Have you witnessed this grumpyscot, or is it just a fantasy?

If you have witnessed it, I hope you gave evidence against the incorrectly signalling bus driver instead of sitting there saying 'oops'.
Flashing your headlights - Truckers - Bilboman
By no means complete, but here is a list of possible interpretations of headlamp flashing, garnered from my 25 years of driving...
1. After you
2. DON'T...!
3. Idiot.
4. Nice car!
5. Wow, an Armstrong Siddeley, haven't seen one of those since Suez...
6. Y'all right, Fred? Day off, then?
7. "Mutual recognition" of one Eddie Stobart lorry (bus, ambulance, Royal Mail van, MG, Alvis, Morgan, etc..) to another
8. Speed trap round the next bend!
9. Thanks!
10. (In response to 9.) Not at all, my pleasure
11. (In response to 10) erm,thanks for, erm, thanks... (continue sequence at will)
12. You've left your headlights/indicator/foglights.. on
13. Hey! You've got flames/smoke/sparks shooting from your engine/exhaust/boot...
14. TRY not to cross the double white line, you're very close!
15. Safe to pull back in front of me
16. Switch lights on, it's dark!
17. You're on main beam, so I'll do the same
18. You've just dazzled me on main beam so I'll just dazzle you when it's too late to retaliate
19. I'm not flashing, I'm a Volvo driver going over a road hump.
20. It's dark and I'm driving a flash German car with HID lighting and I'm also going over a hump.
21. Not flashing - it's a 1970's Leyland car with Lucas electrics...
22. Stupid pedestrian! - I nearly didn't see you! Wear something white, d'you hear?
23. French/Italian tourist on holiday - about to overtake lorry
24. Phwoarrrrr !
25. You've got a door open/petrol leak/trail of blood/miscellaneous almost impossible-to-communicate-intelligently mishap in progress...
26. It's not my car! It's the wife's Kia and I went to wash the windscreen. Just as well I'm not in that classic Peugeot or I'd be blasting you with air horns instead.
27. I am being kidnapped, please phone the police immediately.
28. Brakes failed - runaway car (horn won't work without ignition!)
29. I really want to blast my horn at you for some reason, but it's 11.30 pm in a built up area, so a flash it will have to be...
30. How much have you been drinking? I'm driving a train and you're parked across the level crossing, MOVE IT !!
31. I'm an American driver not used to manuals; I'm trying to change gear!
I have to admit the last five are whims of my imagination - have I missed any?


Flashing your headlights - - Cliff Pope
32. My headlight dip stalk is combined with the flasher, so when I turn the headlights on for the first time I never know whether they are going to be on main or dip. Sorry - don't blame me, Volvo made it like that. It's probably a safety feature.

Flashing your headlights - - SpamCan61 {P}
33. For use in the New Forest : there is a pig / cow / horse / pony / wilderbeest in the midlle of the road round the blind bend you are about to negotiate, best slow down old chum.

Edited by SpamCan61 {P} on 12/12/2007 at 13:57

Flashing your headlights - Truckers - Altea Ego
Well well Bliboman I have to say you lead an excting life.

I have always had a kidnapp fantasy, whats it like?? and were you driving the train or the guy on the crossing?

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Flashing your headlights - Truckers - Slice
I can think of at least one set of circumstances when I'd rather people didn't flash headlights.

There are quite a few single track roads with passing places in my neck of the woods and when I pull into one of them after dark to let someone pass I always switch my headlights off to avoid dazzling them. (Such courteous behaviour from a 4x4 driver - astonishing!)

What is the last thing the advancing driver does before passing me? Right - a headlight flash - instant dazzlement. I don't like to complain because I know they're only saying "thank you", but this could be acheived at night by momentarily switching headlights off and on.

Flashing your headlights - Truckers - Lud
For those of a curious disposition, there's a shot in the Terrorflag today of two buxom gels flashing their headlights at the Heir to the Throne...